As is tradition, PornHub summed up the year, and in 2023, the MILF category ranked fifth in popularity worldwide. Compared to the previous year, it rose by one point, prompting me to delve into why men are drawn to MILFs rather than canonical eighteen-year-old students.
It all comes down to how MILF porn itself is structured. There is a fundamental difference: mature women in porn always know what they want and almost always dominate men, unlike young girls. There is also always a clear distinction in statuses between the man and the woman – usually, the former are submissive to the latter. In classic MILF porn, the woman is the boss, and the man brings her coffee and papers. Thus, she always dominates him.
This category of porn attracts because the male viewer can, in a way, relax and not control the process: he will not be rejected, he doesn't need to take any action to win the woman, and she can do it all herself. All of this is also compounded by the persistent stereotype in pop culture about "experienced" middle-aged women and what they do in bed.
Looking at it from another angle, a clear parallel can be seen with BDSM. Here, the woman is the dominant one, and the man is the submissive, over whom a sexual act takes place. Such porn is especially loved by men in high positions, where they have to make many important decisions daily and bear great responsibility for them.
I generally enjoy analyzing porn. I believe that a deep understanding of these processes can enhance the effectiveness of traffic pouring and fan engagement.
It all comes down to how MILF porn itself is structured. There is a fundamental difference: mature women in porn always know what they want and almost always dominate men, unlike young girls. There is also always a clear distinction in statuses between the man and the woman – usually, the former are submissive to the latter. In classic MILF porn, the woman is the boss, and the man brings her coffee and papers. Thus, she always dominates him.
This category of porn attracts because the male viewer can, in a way, relax and not control the process: he will not be rejected, he doesn't need to take any action to win the woman, and she can do it all herself. All of this is also compounded by the persistent stereotype in pop culture about "experienced" middle-aged women and what they do in bed.
Looking at it from another angle, a clear parallel can be seen with BDSM. Here, the woman is the dominant one, and the man is the submissive, over whom a sexual act takes place. Such porn is especially loved by men in high positions, where they have to make many important decisions daily and bear great responsibility for them.
I generally enjoy analyzing porn. I believe that a deep understanding of these processes can enhance the effectiveness of traffic pouring and fan engagement.